The leather ( and supporting vinyl) is arguably more durable than soft and buttery. We have survived dogs on the second row seats(no scratches from claws) , smashed and melted (and subsequently frozen) jellybeans, and gum mashed into the second row seats, and with warm water & mild soap, it all come out perfectly, much to my amazement. The only issue is making sure you get the perforations in the touring leather clean, which in my case both times was very easy to do.
We didn't buy any of the interior protection options, so it was up to me to clean things out and everything has come out just fine. Certainly much easier than if we had a cloth interior.
Lastly, the seats on the Touring, both the first and second row, tend to be firmer than the ones in the other models ( I'm guessing due to the ventilated feature), so spend some time in them to make sure everybody's comfortable.