Thanks guys!
I went to the dealership and looked over the base that we were waiting for, then in the showroom I looked over a touring. I'm not a big leather seats guy , actually prefer cloth, and all the options are nice, but as I went through the list I honestly couldn't find one thing it has where I said to myself, I need this.
That, combined with the fact the next premium wouldn't arrive for a month, and we're about to get snow here in wny, I needed to trade my 2013 WRX for something asap (summer tires , no bueno in snow).
Also they gave me such a great deal on the base and my trade, I really felt like they might change their minds if I didnt sign something! The new ascent ended up being 31k and they gave me 19k for my wrx so I had to take it.
That plus we really do need to keep costs down. We were actually looking at used or newcars in the 25-28k range so the 30+k cars were already a stretch for us financially. So it really didn't make sense to add more cost for some features we honestly don't need.
So far we're very pleased with the ascent. It's no wrx but I knew that going into it. I don't find the size an issue personally, I felt like the Ascent handles very well and feels much more nimble than I expected a 4400 lb SUV to be. And visibility is great. The rear view camera is so much better than anything I've used before, I think I can reverse more quickly and confidently in this than I could in my wrx!
I think I'm going to to install a hitch and harness so I can tow light trailers like small utility trailers which honestly will probably be all I ever want to do with it.
I think the only things I might want down the road are tinted windows and remote start, but I actually don't want the remote start the premium comes with, I would prefer not to require internet service.