I'd be interested in your thoughts comparing the Pilot to the Ascent. We had it narrowed down to those exact two vehicles and chose the Ascent for
1) One inch wider third row and one inch more depth behind the third row for cargo.
2) Familiarity with the same big screen we've enjoyed with our 20 Outback, which we kept.
3) $9K less expensive comparably equipped, $15K less expensive when you consider that only Touring and Elite offer live HondaLink that is comparable to Starlink on the Premium Ascent.
The lowest Pilot we would have considered was the EXL with the 9" screen, we ended up with a Premium Ascent.
Getting back to the topic of this thread, we do not have this newest, biggest battery in our Ascent but will certainly keep it in mind if we ever need it.
She didn't like the big screen after having a couple of loaners with it. She likes buttons and she felt the bigger screen lags. Our Ascent is a Limited and our Pilot is an Elite. Our current Ascent's headunit has been finicky since we have owned it. It has been replaced once and still has some issues. The cargo difference was negligible for her. Where we lost it in the formal cargo area in the new Pilot, we gained it back in the deep seat storage area. Everything that was permanently stored in the Ascent in the cargo area can be stored in the seat storage area under the floor board. The cargo cover for the Ascent, hands down is so much better than the Pilots. The Pilot's doesn't collapse in and there is no place to store the thing in the car.
Engine wise, I'm leaning towards the Ascent's CVT. I try not to say this on the Honda forums. You press on the gas the Turbo goes. The Pilot, you have to realize what setting you are in. We've been trying out the economical mode all weekend. Changing to sport when we need to be aggressive. Our gas mileage for the Ascent is better now that I'm driving a little more highway than just in town. In town, my wife felt she had to really stay under a certain RPMs to get better gas mileage. The Pilot in Standard and Eco mode gets what it is stated in town. Fake vs. real shifts, it really doesn't matter to me now. I thought you will have this life affirming realization driving a CVT vs. a 10 speed tranny.
Starlink and HondaLink. We did the initial offer for Starlink. I wouldn't mind having it to remote start the car in the mornings but for the price after that intro price, we did not renew. Yes Honda Link is similar but my wife doesn't need to remote start the car that often and when she does it's a feature on the key fob. We won't be paying for HondaLink after its intro freebie.
Tech wise- while the big screen is nice (I like it) on the newest Ascent, the full digital driver's screens is a must to compete with a lot of similar vehicles has come out with at the higher trim levels. The one thing that the Pilot doesn't have that we thought was weird at our trim level was a digital rear view mirror.
Honestly, my wife and kids are taking a big trip without me and I didn't feel as confident with the Ascent for that trip. We've had brakes done several times, transmission replaced, a ball joint, etc... My wife had enough with the dealer's shady service reps (there is one I only deal with now). With the last brake issue, she rode with a tech and he said the newest Ascent is practically the same vehicle mechanically with all the recalls done and he has never seen so many issues with Subarus since he has started 7 years ago. For my wife, that put the newest Ascent out of contention regardless of price. I voiced my concerns to Subaru America and got 1500 towards a new car or 500 towards parts and service. I took the parts and service, which I promptly used part of it fixing the ball joint. For me, now that I daily drive it, I felt around town it was reliable enough. I've got 120K/7 year warranty on it if it isn't. Plus the 2018 Crosstrek that was my daily was getting slower as the kids got bigger and I started picking them up from school. I looked around one day between their backpacks and themselves they were packed in like sardines. We all joke about turning the AC off to get extra horsepower to get the Crosstrek up a hill loaded or not. I didn't get a bad deal inheriting the Ascent, base model Crosstrek 6 speed manual to a Limited Ascent.
The one thing I noticed is that owning a Subaru is a community thing, regardless of what model you have. You get that with certain cars from makers like Jeep (Wranglers) and Toyota (Tacoma/4Runner) but not as a whole. I don't get that vibe from owning a Honda and we've owned a 2010 Pilot before this new one. You own a Honda and you just drive it, it's a tool (hopefully a trusty one). I don't know how to explain it.