I think you made the right call by saying "No Thanks". If you do not NEED a new vehicle right now, such as for a growing family...I would hold off. There is A LOT of excitement around the Ascent and people all want to get into them ASAP and are paying MSRP and even over. For the dealers, if they can make more money, they should. I have been open with our dealer letting them know that I intend to trade my Flex in for an Ascent and that I would prefer to work with them, since they are in town and we have had good luck with purchasing my Wife's 2 Outbacks from them. They have not dropped from MSRP and I finally told my salesperson and the sales manager that when the market balances out, they are starting to sit on inventory and want to negotiate, to give me a call. I will only pay MSRP if they give me Retail Book for my car as a trade in. Retail to retail or wholesale to wholesale is the only way I will buy a car. I however do not NEED a new car, my 2015 Flex with 60K on the clock will keep on going down the road. I also refuse to finance over 4 years, so getting a good deal and staying "upright" on my vehicles is important to me.
Long story short, if you can, hold out for what you want to try to get the best deal you can.
I am curious as to how dealers will receive the clients that are purchasing their cars out of state from other dealers when it comes to service. I do believe, admittedly or not, that most dealers will take car of their clients first.